Someone You Meet in Your Travels
If you're a single laptop traveler, foreign attraction will most likely give you the opportunity for romance in your travels.
So do you have a whirlwind fling or attempt to make something more? The two of you could live on opposite sides of the world. Your goals, dreams, aspirations and culture will likely be completely different. But for now, you have this moment, this time when your dissimilar paths cross. You feel alive, in love. Do you go for it and enjoy the time that you have together? Or is it better to deny your feelings, close that door and lock your heart away?
If you have actual feelings for the other person beyond attraction, the situation can be very complicated. There are no good answers, so talk the situation out with the other person. How long will you two be together? Are you likely to see each other again? How do you both feel about long-distance relationships? Can you handle a few days or weeks of love followed by a sad but necessary breakup? Only the two of you can answer those questions.
If you decide to proceed, be truthful with yourself. Recognize that the unusual situation can intensify everything, both the good and the bad. Enjoy your time together, but do not place expectations on the relationship. When it's over, part on good terms. Exchange email addresses and phone numbers, leaving the door open for the future. At the same time, it would be better not to wrap up your future dreams and expectations in what are ultimately two ships passing in the night.
Someone You Meet Online
It is becoming increasingly more common to meet people online and have a friendly face waiting when you arrive at the next destination. If you decide to add cyberdating to your travel itinerary, it's important to be honest about your intentions. If you're completely up front it is possible to date exciting people on your travels. Dating people from other cultures can enrichen your travel experience. However, if you entertain false hopes of a more permanent relationship, or lead your partners into expecting more, you're likely look back upon a string of heartbreaks.